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writes:Where do i stand with him?There is this boy that i work with and we're pretty good friends. A few months ago he broke up with his gf of 2 years and since then we've got really close. we were pretty close even when he was with his gf though as she was a bit jealous of me.we have the same group of friends and go out together. since he's been broken up with his gf we'd been hanging out together and i kept going round to his house to watch films and things and we always ended up kissing. he would also text me every day.now its all changed and the last time we've hung out was 2 weeks ago and now we havent hung out since, he always seems to be busy, and he's also not texting me evry day now. he's also been hanging out with his ex gf because they're trying to be friends, he tells me he doesnt want to get back with her. i've always known that he doesnt want another gf at the min, which is fair enough, but im just a bit confused as to whether he's actually busy, or all of a sudden he's just not interested in me anymore, or even if he's getting back with his ex?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (30 January 2009):
if they are trying to be friends then he may be trying to not make her jealous or upset her. That could be why he's backed away from you.
He's said he doesn't want a girlfriend at the moment so you just have to treat him like a mate. If he's backed off then it's his loss as a friend.
Go hang out with your other friends instead.
To be honest, it does sound like you really want him to be your boyfriend. If so then this is MORE reason to back away from him now. If you are there during this time then you may end up being the rebound girl.
Leave him to get over his ex and for her to move on too. Once he is free and ready for a girlfriend then you will be there and waiting.
Good Luck!! xx
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