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writes:Confused?Hey I have been recently been quite depressed over this guy who online i came across, we both chatted and he asked for my number? and we both chatted on the phone, but he was asking me out? and i just felt lil uncomfortable as i have not done this sort of thing before so i told him no, so after that he went quite again and stop texting me and calling as before, but then again when he is online he keeps saying if i want to, when i kept saying no he got frustrated or seemed really quite? which left me thinking have i turned him down.So after a couple of months the guy i liked online, he was turning into a complete different character,as i have just found out from my mate that he was seeing someone else yeah, so i asked him why he never told me, and his answer was well you don't have to chat so delete me, but i kept asking him why, i did tell him i liked him but he said i was being too attached which left me hurt more, but after that i got a text him saying sorry! But when he went online! he was being different and too flirtatious man of my friends said hes not worth it! and doesn't seem trust-able. So i had a word with him but led to arguments again..so we both didn't talk for a while! but after 6 months he found me on face book, and messaged me how I was ? which i found very puzzling think why is he? or does he like me or does he feel guilty..but when he was online he talks half moment then blanks off and when i asked him whats wrong he starts going snappy and swears..so here's me slightly confused thinking whats going on? did i hurt him??? so then onwards my cousins got involved telling him to back off and leave me alone cause i felt depressed over him, and every time I'm on msn he has been telling everyone about that apparently she gets upset wen i dnt chat to on msn making scary comments about me! which don't help me and i don't appreciate it, coz it upsets me more..this had led to lot of depression to me and i don't know what to do?
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (23 August 2007):
 Relationships are hard enough in the real world, much less in the virtual world of chatrooms. My advice is to turn off your computer and get out into the real world and meet a man face-to-face. Chatrooms are full of weirdo's that hide behind false images and prey on women with deception. He's already showing the signs to me. I would end it now before he messes up your head completely.
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