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writes:I'm in love with this man. We are about 6 years apart in age difference. We've known each other since about 9 years now. He says he never wants a relationship with anyone. Yet he says he loves me, and he knows I love him. He does not want me to get too close to him cause he believes I will find someone else that I can become as close to, if not more. He's very special to me and I don't want to lose him. We have a very close bond. He's my best friend and more. I can't imagine life without him. What should I do? It would break my heart to lose him. If anyone has any advice, please answer me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the response to my question. I will just see how things go. Thanks so much for yer advice. And any other advice would also be appreciated.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (27 October 2008):
 Sounds like you should tell him your feelings. Let him know that you love him and know he loves you. Tell him that you would love a relationship based on such a great friendship with him.
If he still insists that he's not wanting a relationship, then go ahead and move on. Sometimes a guy doesn't know what he's got until it's gone. You know that age old quote, "If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don't, they never were." In the meantime, keep your eyes open for fellas. You never know, love could surprise you in someone else more suited for you, who is interested in a relationship.
Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, aureliuslover  +, writes (27 October 2008):
 someone said to me that the perfect age gap is 6 years and if you really love him, go for it!
try to ask him why he wants you to meet other people to be close with. if there is a valid reason for that, then follow what you think is right.
Goodluck!
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