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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok so here goes I just got out of a four relationship about five months ago. It was one of those break up everyday type of relationship where we had a lot of serious issues. I have to honestly say that I am a better woman without him. So I have been dating this guy at my job for about two months we haven't had sex, we just make out, talk, go out. I mean everything is pretty cool. So here comes my i guess problem a couple of days ago i literally turned the corner and ran into my one of my exes boy . He was actually going out with his friends to a bar and invited my friends to come along and so we went. My exes friend and I exchanged numbers , the next day we hung out , we made out , the day after that we hung out again and this time we had sex. The next day after that we did not hang out but we had a four hour conversation on the phone. It has been three days since and we have NOT spoken and i am so puzzled as to what happen here . When him and i spoke he said he really likes me and he wants to do "right" by me because he knows how badly my ex treated me because obviously they were boys. He said that he liked me alot and that we need to slow down because he could see himself really being with me. I agreed with him and everything he said but I dont understand if we were hitting it off so great why hasn't he called? I mean the guy that works at my job is great but i just feel like something is missing between us like maybe our chemistry is more of a friend ship.
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reader, rcn +, writes (24 December 2008):
 First of all, having sex with this other guy, since there is something missing, you need to end it. It's not at all okay to having someone thinking you're together while you're being with someone else. It always ends up with a negative outcome.
I don't know how this will end up. I will say, you'll want to think twice about having sex the second day going out. Reason being, there are many guys who will charm, until they get in your pants, then off to the next one to charm. Someone who wants to be with you will work towards getting to know you as a person and not just make out or have sex. If you want someone who's really there for you, don't give in until you really know them.
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