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Coming on too strong?

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Question - (27 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2011)
A female Spain age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So... I met this guy the other day, and really this question is a bit pathetic but I really liked him and wanted some opinions on what to do.

On Saturday I made dinner for a friend. My flatmate, who is his friend and how I met him, invited him over and he was round literally five minutes later although couldn't stay for dinner. And I swear I caught him blushing when he was speaking to me. He was meant to come round after to watch a film, but I was out and my flatmate (bless her) sent him a message to see if he could come over the next day as she was tired and I wanted to see the film as well. But he didn't reply for 24 hours and then only to say that he couldn't because there's some kind of big football match on.

Flatmate's verdict was that he was definitely into me and if I'm totally honest I think there were signs there... he said he liked tall girls - I am very tall, I kept seeing him looking at me... or was I just imagining it? Additional info is that he broke up with his last girlfriend fairly recently, 6 weeks ago, although it sounds like the kind of thing that had been on the cards for a while.

The question is, do I a) leave things and see if he gets in touch or b) find some kind of pretext to meet up and see what happens, which would be easy considering that he lives just around the corner and I might "need" to borrow a hammer or set of scales or something this weekend. We got on really well, at least from my point of view.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (30 March 2011):

dirtball agony auntI'd suggest trying to see him again. Maybe something around your place needs his help fixing. ;-)

It's hard to say if he was into you or not, but you'll also never know if you don't try. I say go for it and see what happens.

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