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female
age
30-35,
*rin0236
writes:I started a new job and my male co-worker is training me. We would laugh about stuff at work and he would laugh at things that I said. He would check-in when I was working and see how I was doing. I dressed up nicely a few times (because I was meeting myboyfriend for dinner) and I noticed him staring at me. I brushed it off because that's what someguys do. Sometimes when we would talk, he seemed to get nervous, but I have big eyes and it can seemlike I'm staring so I thought maybe he was just intimidated. Now he's acting weird- he'll talk and laugh with other people, but not with me. He'll answer my work questions, but is otherwise very serious. He's married, but never talked about his personal life with me, which is fine. But then one day he kept mentioning his wife. I don't know if I've done something because things seemed to have changed. I feel like I've done something wrong, but I don't know what.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 November 2014):
 Maybe he developed a little crush on you and knowing THAT is not a good thing he is backing off.
But like Denizen said... why not just ask him if the two of you are OK. And then let him have his space.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (3 November 2014):
 You just have to ask him if everything is OK. You can imagine all sorts of reasons but you need to hear it from the horses mouth.
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