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writes:Is my best friend flirting with me? I'm a single female and my best friend is a married female. I am starting to feel like she is flirting with me lately. We see each other often and talk most every day either in person or via email. There are things she does and says that is leading me to believe that her feelings go deeper then just being friends. She has been gently touching me a lot lately, on my arm and my putting her hand on my back. She is signing off on her emails "Love and miss You"! She used to sign off "Love and miss ya"! We were talking about Christmas and she said "you should come home with me"! She knows I would go to my mother's house but yet she has made that statement several times. In June we got matching tattoo's of a butterfly, (her request). I have wanted a tattoo and the butterfly actually meant something to me personally. When I had supper with her and her husband the other night she sent me an email that said "thanks for having supper with us, it tasted so much better"! When we have lunch together at work (4 days a week) she always makes sure she sits right next to me, and if I get to the table to sit after she does and I don't sit right next to her she will say "fine, don't sit by me"! Sometimes with the rest of the staff we have to sit at 2 tables next to each other and if I sit at one table she will sit at that table instead of the table where her husband is and if she does sit at the table her husband is at, she will sit in the chair closest to me. Another friend of mine just ended her friendship with me and when I told my best friend about it she seemed happy, and said I shouldn't let that other friend back into my life if she wanted to make-up. It's all so very confusing. Can you shed some light on her behavior towards me. Thank you!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (3 November 2014):
 I don't know if you picked the title or the moderators did but I don't see this as flirting.
It seems to me if I worked with my husband i would much rather spend lunch with my girlfriends since I see him at home all the time.
I see NOTHING here that indicates she is flirting with you.
Is she bisexual?
are you?
why would you think this is flirting vs just being a caring friend?
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