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writes:Hey all, could really do with some advise!So me and this guy have worked together for over 3 years and over that time become really good friends. We've always flirted etc but never acted upon anything as he's got a long term gf.Yesterday just like any other weekend he gave me a ride home from work, we were joking around and ended up kissing... For quite a while...Afterwards I felt really bad not only cause of his gf (who btw I've never met) but because I've always beleived getting involved with a co worker isn't a smart thing to do!I saw him today and have never felt so awkward in my life, he came to chat to me and said "I feel so bad about last night, couldn't sleep, felt sick etc etc" and that he wanted to remove me off his BBM, not have each others numbers or ride to work anymore as he didn't want any 'temptations'I said this was cool if its what he wanted. But to be truthful I feel sooo upset he's being like this as we were really close and wouldn't ever do this again (unless he was single) and I feel as though he's putting the blame towards me when it was infact both of us?Should I say something or let it go? I can't avoid him as I spend 10 hours a day at work with him, I'm off work now for a week and don't want it to be as awkward as it was today. Sorry for the long post but I'm really hurt by the way he's acting and really need some advise on how to put this right cause I don't want to fall out over the whole thing..Thanks in advance xx
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reader, Lucky786 +, writes (23 August 2011):
 He has a girlfriend to think about and obviously he feels guilty about what he did. You shouldn't feel so bad about it, at least he didn't string you along and sleep with you before ending it.
I think the sensible thing to do is to forget about the whole kissing thing. Be polite and professional with him at work and definitely do not allow yourself to be in that situation again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2011): He has a committed gf: enoughsaid!He feels guilty bec now he is just like a common cheater and he hates himself. It shows that he truly loves his gf and u need to respect this.Yes the best is to delete all personal communication bet you 2: so no bbm, emails and the like.He made his decision. Yep its awkward BUT i think perhaps u both learnt a valuable lesson.LoveGirl
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