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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi - caught my girlfriend chatting and exchanging racey pictures/conversations with another guy on Snapchat. We argued and talked it through. The guy also has a girlfriend and she doesnt know this has happened, should I tell his girlfriend? Thanks in advance.
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reader, Just rick  +, writes (19 December 2019):
Hell yes U tell him,bros before hoes!!! Then U open the door say good by. Unless U like that ugly sick feeling down in guts,she will do it again because she doesn't respect boundries,probably never has???? Looking at some of the other answers,it's crazy no don't tell her until she is preagnet and leaves her!!! Know big deal just one more kid starting life??? Well U can pretty much guess the rest??? Break that chain now.?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2019): I think the more masculine, adult, sensible thing to do has been done. That's confronting your cheating-girlfriend for her behavior.
Did he force her to send him racy pictures of her? Did she tell you a guy was sexually-harassing her online?
Deal with your woman, my friend!
Running to tell his girlfriend isn't what a grown-man in his 30's should do! That would be okay if you were 16!
You'd be going after the wrong girlfriend; the GF you need to be talking to is YOURS!!!
Hope you didn't buy her anything too expensive for Christmas, like an engagement ring! That would totally suck!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (16 December 2019):
 No, you just want to do because you got hurt, so now you want to hurt this guy AND his GF?
I think IF you were looking out for the other girl, then maybe I could see telling her... but you are not wanting to tell her because you give a shit about her, but to lash out at the other guy.
If you are NOT OK with this, maybe you need to consider whether your GF is actually "right" for you.
Personally, this would be a dealbreaker for me (if the conversation was inappropriate.)
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (16 December 2019):
 Why? Will it make you feel any better? It's not the guy's girlfriend's fault. She is an innocent party caught up in this, just the same as you are. Do you just want her to hurt like you have? Trust me, it won't make you feel any better.
Attempting to weaken someone else's relationship won't strengthen YOURS. Only YOU can do that. You need to talk to your girlfriend and decide whether you can trust her going forward. If not then you need to finish the relationship and find someone more trustworthy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2019): I would probably leave it up to your girlfriend to do that. I think if a strange man she doesn't know contacts her out of the blue with no proof it'll come across as really creepy.
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