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writes:My Mum and Dad are still married but I found my Dad in bed with my friend. My dad is 62 and my friend is 26, they don't know that I saw them. Should I tell them and my Mum? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011): Step 1: Gather evidenceStep 2: Tell momStep 3: Confront themstep 4: Spread the tape to everybody they know, pastors, bosses, teachers, colleagues, the girl's parents/boyfriend/exsStep 5: Get mom to get a divorce and get a hefty sum from itStep 6: Sell tape for extra cashStep 7: Profit!
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reader, person12345  +, writes (3 April 2011):
 Oh and I forgot to add, you should tell your friend to 'get lost'. Any "friend" who does that is no friend at all.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (2 April 2011):
 No one should be fooled into living with someone that cheats on them and does not treat them with the respect they deserve. Your mother and your father are obviously having issues. One of your parents is not being communicative with the other, or one of them is simply not listening. Generally, the one that cheats is the one that is not being heard and is dissatisfied. Tell your friend to bugger off for a couple of days so you can talk to your father. Let him know that he needs to talk to your mother and be honest about what he has done, so she can at least know what is going on. Every day someone is with their partner, they make the decision to stay. Right now, that decision your mother is making is not an educated one. Afford her the opportunity to give her that chance to make an educated one.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (2 April 2011):
 I would consider at least confronting your father and 'friend'...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011): You should tell your mom first because your mom most likely doesnt know what was going on. If your husband did that to you would you want some one to tell you?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (2 April 2011):
No, stay out of it.
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