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writes:Me and my boyfriend are together for year and a half and he is just perfect. I dated guys and had serious relationships but this man is just 10/10 in every way he is caring, loving, best looking, great shape, smart, charming, funny, best in bed( skills and " nature gifted")abcious, very work successful and he just got eyes only for me, just all those things that girl wants from a guy. Sometimes i'm even thinking what is he doing with me. But i work in fashion and i got a big promotion and it s the position that most people are waitin till they are 40 to get. Basically its my dream job, its something i wanted to do since i was a kid. But the problem is i have to move to Paris for that and i know he can't move from L.A. I always thought that i wont let guys affect this kinda of a decision but I love him so much that i m considering not going.I dont know what to do please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): Here is another perspective, that even if you don't take this opportunity, it doesn't mean that another job opportunity won't come around.
It sounds like you are both very much in love, and at a year and a half, that is great thing. In fashion and creative fields (which I work), there is no shortage of opportunity.
Be creative and expressive. Help others that are passionate and you will fulfill your career dreams.
You chose the heart. Best wishes to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is encouraging me to go but i know he doesn't want me to leave and i also doesn't want to and i decided that i won't
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (3 July 2010):
 Also, if he is crazy about you and loves you, he will encourage you to pursue your dreams and not give up such an incredible opportunity!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (3 July 2010):
Yeah, I'm going to say go with the career. In fashion, a great job is rare to come by, and I think you'll spend the rest of your life kicking yourself if you don't accept it and go to Paris. If he is that wonderful, you can do a long distance thing, and if he's not into that - there are more wonderful guys in the universe. You are much more likely to find another fantastic guy than you are to find an amazing job like the one you've been offered.
Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, VictoriaK +, writes (3 July 2010):
 I'd say go for your career. My reasoning behind this being that (this may sound a bit extreme) say you don't get this dream job, and you marry this guy and have kids. If he got hurt, or died would you be able to support yourself, your children?
Another thing is this, if he loves you as much as you say then he would encourage you to go for your dreams, long distance relationships are hard, but they can work!! It takes patience, and understanding, but thy can work. And you could see him every once in a while. You should always put yourself first.
Good Luck,
Victoria K
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