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writes:I have known my friend for over a year. He has been doing little things.1: Can you be out by a certain time?2: I have my own place but still living with him.3: He said he wanted to tell me something but then stops and pauses and says never mind.4: Took me on a date without telling me it was a date till afterwards. (Thanks for the date).5: Told his friend I was more than just company, while we were in the car.What's really going on and what're your thoughts because I can't read him? Reply to this Question
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reader, judgedick  +, writes (19 July 2017):
 I don't understand when you say you have your own place but still living with him and that you have to be out by a certain time.
Are you 24/7 or not have you at least a drawer in his place with your undies in or does his place look like you don't be there ever?
Told his friend I was more than just company, SO this is saying to him your his GF
4: Took me on a date without telling me it was a date till afterward. (Thanks for the date).
THIS IS THE PART I understand the least as if you live together you do not go out on dates, dates are for courting couples, not patterns if you are together as a couple you go out together as in going out to dinner, going out to the movies or going out to the park,
I think your reading where you are wrong and he is trying to tell you one thing or the other, that he wants to make it official your union or put you back in gf as in the gf I am dating but not cohabiting with,
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (18 July 2017):
 If you are with him and can't read him, there is no way that any of us could know what is going on with him. Grab your courage and sit down and TALK TO HIM. Its the only way you are going to get the real scoop. Good luck!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 July 2017):
 Be bold and ask.
We can't read his mind and neither can you.
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reader, N91  +, writes (18 July 2017):
 Instead of asking us, why don't you ask him?
None of us could possibly tell you what he's thinking. We could only speculate which would leave you no closer to having an answer.
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