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Age gaps, how much is too much?

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Question - (12 March 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 March 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, i'm in a relationship with a 15 year age gap, i'm 19 and she's 34, we are very happy but, sometimes we both feel anxious over the age gap, is this gap too big to be realistic

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A female reader, blueykisses United Kingdom +, writes (17 March 2008):

my fiance is 35 and i am 20 we get along great i think you just need to calm down and take things abit slower becasue your making this a big deal when it isnt when your both mature about it and adults, if you get along dont be embrassed to be with someone older

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A female reader, xXBeccaTxX United Kingdom +, writes (12 March 2008):

xXBeccaTxX agony auntIt's NOT unrealistic,bu you may find that as you both get older your life will become harder for you. Your both going to want to do different things and (sorry to say it) but the age gap means that if you pass away she'll be left with children or just plainly on her own. It may seem like a gr8 idea now,but you need to think whether your love is so strong that you want to put her through that when your both older. As i said she may want to do stuff like nightclubs and you may not feel up to it in a few years time.

Overall,i would say that if your love is that strong,than yu can make it through anything! so don't worry! Hope i helped

xxx

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A female reader, Variety United Kingdom +, writes (12 March 2008):

Variety agony auntI don't think it is a problem but you obviously have some hesitations about it because you have posted here. If you are worried talk to her. x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008):

I wouldnt say this is unrealistic, no - I've seen bigger! (Pardon the pun lol). If you're in love, what should get in your way?

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