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I can't stop comparing women to my "first love". How do I stop it & appreciate other women?

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Question - (4 March 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 March 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

I'm 42 and have not had made love in 14 years, nor had sex in 7 years. I believe there is a big difference in both. The last person I saw naked was me!

I was in a wonderful relationship with a truly beautiful woman, physically, emotionally and mentally, but sadly did not take it to the next level. All I can think of is "my first love" even if I see someone I like I always compare them to her. We are still in touch and are still good friends, though she was from another country.

I don't drink and in my job it's not possible for me to meet people. I am neither well endowed (very small in fact) nor good looking, I believe I was extremely lucky when I met her.

How do I come out of my shell and have some adult fun even "fall in love?"

I am getting so desperate now I am searching all the sex contact sites on the web and even considering going with a guy just for some physical pleasure.

Somebody help me please!!!

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A reader, Kalynn , writes (5 March 2005):

Don't worry about it. You'll find someone who realizes that looks don't matter and that it's what's on the inside that counts more than anything.

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