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anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid,I'm 42 and have not had made love in 14 years, nor had sex in 7 years. I believe there is a big difference in both. The last person I saw naked was me!I was in a wonderful relationship with a truly beautiful woman, physically, emotionally and mentally, but sadly did not take it to the next level. All I can think of is "my first love" even if I see someone I like I always compare them to her. We are still in touch and are still good friends, though she was from another country.I don't drink and in my job it's not possible for me to meet people. I am neither well endowed (very small in fact) nor good looking, I believe I was extremely lucky when I met her.How do I come out of my shell and have some adult fun even "fall in love?" I am getting so desperate now I am searching all the sex contact sites on the web and even considering going with a guy just for some physical pleasure.Somebody help me please!!! Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Kalynn , writes (5 March 2005): Don't worry about it. You'll find someone who realizes that looks don't matter and that it's what's on the inside that counts more than anything.
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