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writes: I was in love with a boyfriend of two years. After a while jealousy came up and ruined us. I saw that he went to prom with a girl i was hurt. Little did i know she was actually just a family friend nothing more. At the moment i did what i regret the most i sent him a text Saying i found someone, which i didnt but i didnt want to seem like the dumb one. Shortly after he met someone and so did i. He has been with her for about 6 months byt it stilk on my mind hes the one who got away but i cant take back what i said. I just learned from my mistake. Will i ever learn to let go? I dont talk to him because if hes in a relationship i know its wrong to talk to an ex like that. Ive had bfs where they talk to friends that are girls and as a gf you might feel insecure so i dont do that at all. I just feel like i gave him away like things could be different
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reader, Mina_Bhamji  +, writes (13 November 2015):
 No point thinking about the what if's and the but's. There's reasons why it's ended up like that, maybe he genuinely weren't the one for you. I understand why you're mad at yourself, but it's all done now. All you can do is learn from it and move on. This will be a lesson that in your next relationship don't jump to conclusions. And it's best if you don't contact him, it could cause conflict in his relationship.
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