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writes:Every guy that i date for a long time after the break up they always seem to find a new girl thats actually the one. Its like im cursed or something. Its really sad because its every guy that i date then shortly after its the next girl other then me. Its like i show them how to be the best of them and be better and after we go through it all somehow i end up losing. Reply to this Question
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reader, BloggerChick  +, writes (14 November 2015):
 I'm positive you're not cursed, you just haven't found "the one" yet. As for why your ex boyfriends always do, it is possible that they don't necessarily "use" you or anything, but you're relationship together helps them to realise exactly what they're looking for. If that happens to not be you then hey ho, Mr Right will come along at some point. I've always chose to believe that the right guy is out there somewhere looking for me, whilst I'm waiting for him. I don't care if that's a little optimistic that what I believe. Finding "the one" can take some time, months, years, even decades for some people. As my mum told me as a kid, when I couldn't find Barbie's party dress or whatever, "sometimes you have to stop searching, to find what you're looking for". In other words, you just have to be patient, and I'm sure Mr Right (or close enough) will come to you :)
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reader, Mina_Bhamji +, writes (13 November 2015):
 People come in your life as a blessing or a lesson. You were clearly the lessons in their life. Be patient, your blessing will come soon.
You can help yourself by changing the type of men you date, is there something similar about all the guys you're with? Or try a different scenery to meet them, somewhere where they have same intentions as you, to have a long relationship.
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