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*isturbed Princess
writes:Hey...Theres this guy(my Ex) im still so in love with him and every time i see him i start to cry cus i know he has moved on n i just love him so much and it brings back all the memories i had with him [the fun times and the sad times] but i want him back soo much. i just dont know what to do about iti want him back!his moved on!he says he hates me!, but yet he still hugs me n talks to me!would he still have feelings for me?can you please help me?thankyou
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reader, Disturbed Princess +, writes (5 April 2009):
Disturbed Princess is verified as being by the original poster of the question im never gonna be able to see or talk to him again so theres no point trying to talk to him... iv been messed up for the past 3weeks i really want him back
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reader, little lilly  +, writes (4 April 2009):
The answer is time. I went through a similar thing a few years ago. I was in love with my boyfriend and he cheated on me. I found out and we had lots of massive aguments. He broke up with me saying he couldn't cope with it anymore. I was in a terrible mess. I kept begging him to take me back and he'd always say no. I was suffering from depression before we broke up, so after I was even worse. I through away any dignity I had, it was really quite pathetic. I begged for him to take me back. After a while I started seeing someone else, the thing was I was still in love with him. Eventually my new relationship broke up, but I didn't really care. I decided to calm it down and became back friends with my ex, I still wanted to be with him, but didn't mention it just acted like I'd moved on. Then over a year ago on my Birthday, he asked to meet up, he'd bought me some roses and he started kissing me. We got back together and have been together since. The thing is, what he did to me, all the hurt and pain it's still there. I can never truely forgive him, however nice he is to me now. Also now he never tells me he loves me, before when we were together he did. The other thing is, my feelings for him have faded. I idolised him. Now I realise he's just a guy and not a particularly nice one at that. All I wanted was to have him back and now I know I have to end it. Don't do what I did. I've wasted so much time, but I've learned some very important lessons. Most importantly never beg someone to get back with you, don't throw away your dignity. Take some time to heal and then move on, don't look back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): talk to him about it tell him your still inlove with him and then if he feels the same the walaa and if not sorry you need to get over him cuss it takes effort from both of you's to make it work xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): awww babe im sorta goin thru the same thing. iz kinda hard to give advice on it though without knowing the reasons you broke up? why does he hate you? how long were you together for?all i can say now is hes really confusing. mayb you should jus confront him an ask him whats goin on. ask him that if he hates you why does he still talk to you? if he did hate you he wouldnt even pay you any attention so i dont think he really does hate you. maybe its worth telling him how you feel. tell him you regret everything that happened between you and that you wish you could start again and see what he says. i know its easier said than done but if you really love him its worth the risk of him turning around and rejecting you. you might look back and regret not saying how you feel now.i really hope things work out for you.goog luck!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): Yes, maybe he does still love u phone him and ask worst he can say is no, only want a friendship with you
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