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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Recently, the guy I've liked for months (Guy A) has become rather distant. Things were going great, I knew he liked me back, and he even asked me out to go see a movie. Well, the date went really well, but afterwards, he started getting distant at school. He stopped texting me like he used to, and when I tried to talk to him, he didn't seem that interested, which struck me as really strange since we had such a great first date. I've been getting really frustrated, thinking I would confront him and ask him why he was being so weird all of the sudden, but then I found out about Guy B.Guy B is such a joker. He's been teasing me around our friends for the past couple of months about his undying love for me, which I took as a joke. In the past week or two, he somehow got my number and started texting me randomly, asking about my day and saying flirty things, which I found weird because I thought he only acted like he liked me for his friends attention. I took the texting as a joke also, and basically came up with lame excuses to stop texting him, like my phone was about to die. Then, the other day, one of our mutual friends informed me that he actually likes me, and his joking attitude is just a ruse to use as an excuse if I turn him down. She also said it really upset him when I made up lame excuses to stop texting him, which made me feel really bad. Well, this all made me think about him some more, and I realized he's actually really sweet, possibly someone not to blow off so easily.So now I'm torn. I've got two guys, who are almost opposites. Here's some data I've thought up.Funniness: Both Guy A and B are hilarious.Smarts: Both are really smart, but Guy B works harder in school while Guy A blows it off.Morals: Guy A is somewhat of a loose canon, who frequently gets drunk or high when with certain friends, also an atheist. Guy B is a Christian, like me, and has tried pot, but doesn't get high that often.Sweetness: Guy A gets a 4, Guy B gets a 9.Body: Guy A is a 3 (he's rather shrimpy), and Guy B is a 9.Level of how much he's into me: Guy A is hard to tell, used to be a 7 but now it seems like a 5 or not at all. Guy B, also hard to tell, maybe a 7?Chemistry: This is where Guy A wins. I feel like there's a connection between us where we can just talk and understand exactly what the other means. We have similar humor and taste in music, and even with a level 3 body, I find him really sexy. Guy B and I just don't have that kind of connection, but then again, I don't know him too well aside from his joker side, so there's still potential.Should I forget about Guy A and consider Guy B instead?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): I don't understand why you still consider Guy A a possibility since he is no longer in the picture and moved on? Guy B seems to be the only one interested (or was interested at one time) of the two but it's possible he lost interest or never was too keen if he gave up so easily. You may try talking to him and see if you can stir uup his feelings again? did Guy B ever ask you to go do anything together or was all this liking you info from just 3rd party sources? There is a saying don't count your chickens before they hatch. Both these boys are in your past as it stands and not in your life now to choose between.
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