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writes: I met someone at work this past february and I absolutely fell in love with this girl. Everything I ever wanted in someone is her, she is my one and only.We became friends and would occasionally hang out on our off days and always had a good time. So one day I just asked her out and she said she was engaged! Well that made me feel real bad. She asked me to come over to her house one day and I met her fiance. That made me feel worse. Now this guy is not a very good influence to her because he influences her into doing a lot of bad things(we won't get into that). And not only am i saying that because I love this girl but, because I know she deserves much better than that. He is now encarcerated and she is left to pay all kinds of bills on her own. I would help her out whenever she needs it. She is still engaged to this scumbag, but I truly love her and I know I would be able to give her a better way of life. I'm getting tired of the times I have to console her when she starts crying because she won't have enough money to cover all her bills, or what she'll do for groceries. I love this girl and I want to know how to get her out of this mess.
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Wise Worm, writes (6 January 2005): You can only save someone who wants to be saved. If she wants to break free, it will be easy. She might be scared that no one will love her again or scared she is not good enough to deserve better. Her relationship with her father will play a huge role... If they are still around and her dad is not an older version of her boyfriend, go to them, talk to them about it. Also, don't get tired of being a friend, she needs someone in her life who can bring perspective into the madness. She feels like she is trapped in this but all it takes is a choice, if this guy is seriously bad, get a restraining order against him.Good Luck
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