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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:this is my problem, but let's just keep it on a general level. If the relationship works in pretty much all aspects (respectful, loving, sexual, everyday life, general believes, etc) but you can't seem to agree on were to live (in my case not the exact location as much as the house). What can you do? Is it impossible to make it work? what if one of the partners aren't willing to be either respectful nor to budge more than ever so slightly, is it still possible? Should you even try to make it work or is it just to give up (like in the case if one wants kids and the other doesn't for example)What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (21 May 2011):
 Is this a long distance relationship?
I think it might not work. If you want to spend your life with someone, there's gotta be compromise from BOTH parties. You also need to be with someone who has the same personal wants/needs that you do, otherwise there might be some clashing.
If you know that this person is never going to change their feelings towards a certain issue, it's best not to try and change them. You either then have to sacrifice your needs for them, or just say that it isn't going to work, and leave.
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