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30-35,
*aniix
writes: Hi, I really need some help. I'm going to end up breaking me and my partner up. We've been together for 2 years and I am so jealous, even when she is out with her family but I don't mean to be. While she is out I feel so alone and I take it out on her, I know it's not fair because she has never done anything bad by me. I've had a lot of problems in my past relationships that I can never forget, I also suffer from depression. I've moved 5 hours away from my family to be with my gf, so I can hardly ever see them either. My dad died last year which I still can't get over, I am so messed up I don't know what to do and how to not take it out on my gf because she's said she's fed up of it always being about me. Sometimes I think I love her too much, I am constantly trying to do things to make her happy. Can you love someone too much?
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reader, Starmonster888 +, writes (24 July 2010):
"My day say if miss someone too much, it can kill you. Say he missed me so much till it like to kill him"
-Zonia Loomis, Joe Turner's Come and Gone
"At high enough doses, that which heals can kill"
-Leonardo Da Vinci, Assassin's Creed 2
"Loving someone is positive, but smothering them achieves the opposite of pleasing them. As well as this, loving someone too much can make even temporary separation from them unbearable. Avoid letting someone become the centre of your world, THAT IS YOUR SPOT"
-Starmonster888, Dearcupid.org
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