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writes:My girlfriend and I have known each other for 5 years and we decided to date it only lasted 4 months and those 4 months were great we fell in love and I thought she was the one . But about a week ago she broke up with me and told me that her feeling for me were lost / she didn't like me anymore. I try to get over her but she still tries to talk to me and tell me she loves me all the time and she doesn't understand why she stop having feelings for me and she wishes she could change it. Can someone please explain to me why a girl might lose feelings for a guy that they really love and care about, so randomly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2013): It doesnt seem like it was your relationship it was probably more her. Its not fair that she keeps contacting you though because it will it impossible for you to move on. So you need to tell her to stop contacting you because its make it too dificult for you, it may feel hard now but you can get over it will just take time.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (18 January 2013):
She didn't lose feelings for you if she's still telling you she loves you . What she has lost is "lust". Some people are addicted to lust and when the lust goes away they feel a little empty. As someone who's been there I empathize with you. You need to forget her and find yourself someone who doesn't confuse lust with love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2013): I think u should just avoid her completely,she broke up with you and then u have to listen to her BS about how she still loves you and wants things to change! Save yourself from all this crap and move ahead, the girl sure like drama..I think when a decision is about 2 people you can't just be soo selfish and do things the way you like. She broke up and that's it, I think just stay away from her, may be later on in life you could be friends! stop allowing her to treat u like trash, ignore her, let her go thru the pain u went thru!
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