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writes:I am 26 and have been with my boyfriend almost 9 years. My problem is, I have been cheating on him with the same person for almost 7 years, on and off.. almost 3 years straight now. He has a girlfriend he has been with almost 9 years. I am very much in love with the boy I am seeing on the side. I love my boyfriend, but deep down know that we don't click well. I know the other boy cares about me and adores me, and I wanted to know if you think its possible he really loves his girlfriend? he doesnt tell her any of his major life decisions, and rarely sees her. He tells her he loves her and stuff, but I just dont know.. Our friends are all mutual(and know about us..), we have everything in common, we talk all day texting, and see each other 2 times a week at least, not always sexually..Is there anyway you can really be in love with someone if your whole relationship is a lie?
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reader, mygambit +, writes (14 April 2010):
You should break up with your boyfriend and save him the heartache you put him through. The other man has a woman my guess if you made your self available he would just keep you as a side woman still. i hope things work out for you but what your doing is Wrong give your boyfriend some piece and when you break it off don't make him wonder why at least let him know its your fault
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): If you truly love your boyfriend, you wouldn't even be looking at other guys. You said yourself that you and your boyfriend don't click well - that answers your question. You're both cheating on your significant others, and it's not going to end well. Break up with your boyfriend. He doesn't deserve to be treated this way. If my boyfriend ever cheated on me, I would spit in his face and that would be it. You can't truly love someone if you go looking to others for affection. Like the first reply stated - you're only in love with yourself.
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reader, raiders +, writes (13 April 2010):
 You have just answered your own question."I am very much in love with the boy I am seeing on the side. I love my boyfriend". So my answer is if you can love and cheat why can't you boy-on the side do the same love his girlfriend of 9 yrs and be with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): The answer is no. You're in love with YOURSELF. Why date a guy who has a girlfriend, and why is GOD'S name do you cheat on the boyfriend you have?? I say break up with both of them and get your head on straight. You don't know what love is.
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