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writes:hey everybody. I had this friend whom I REALLY liked. He had a great personality and we had a lot in common. Almost everything in common. We would talk on a fairly consistent basis about mostly everything. He was so nice to me. I have been to his place and we cuddled and watched TV etc. It never got intimate. He knew I liked him more than a friend but I respected his decision and we stayed friends though I always had a little hope that someday he will find me appealing in that way.Well recently he got into a relationship and we have stopped talking. I decided to leave him be and not bother him cause I really care for him and would love to see him happy. However I would really like to talk to him again someday but I am not too sure if it is the right thing since he is in a relationship. I dont know how long to wait or what but i dont want this to become one of those faded friendships.By the way, i have moved on and im dating other guys as well and interested in other ppl but im never going to forget about him cause he was a really nice guy.Should i ever try to talk to him again, as he was a really nice guy to talk to and I dont want to lose his friendship. Reply to this Question
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (29 August 2008):
 honestly it could be the new girlfriend. it's rough being a girlfriend of a guy who has a very close ladyfriend. keep trying to keep in touch and if not, just do your best to be a good friend and accept that he is happy with the choice he made. you never know, if she leaves the picture he may be your best friend again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks so far. The thing is I did try talking to him. I sent him a message saying congrats on the relationship. He did not answer and usually does answer my messages. I tried talking to him on aim and he seems like he doesnt really want to talk. I think he may be on cloud nine with his new lady but I am just worried. I might leave him alone so I dont become an annoyance......its kinda confusing i dont want to lose him
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (28 August 2008):
sure, why not talk to him?
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