A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,I don't know what to do, I am a normal 25 years old girl a stable job, family and friends, good choices and bad choices.Year ago I became very close with a friend (boy) we became like soul mates, best friends really although we knew each other for years we hit it off as friends year ago, we did lots of stuff together, spend days at the beach and wondered off roads Sundays, we are our selves when we are together and we are able to have fun and always have some thing to say or do.lately, I have been very sexually attracted to him, we will be watching a movie and I would want to be in his arms or I would wake up at night wanting him to be next to me, we spend so much time together, we both not seeing anyone and we have been this way since we became very close.He too want to have sex with me, we talked about it but the fact we are good friends stopping us from having sex, he says I am worried we can not be friends after or that you will be upset with me and I am worried we lose our good friendship., what do you advise us to do
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (4 November 2012):
 whats to prevent you from being a couple?
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reader, CJH +, writes (3 November 2012):
 You sound like the perfect couple.
Making love will bring you even closer together than you are right now and, its a natural progression from the point you are at now.
I can understand your hesitation in not wanting to ruin a friendship BUT that friendship changed the moment you both realized you were sexually attracted to each other.
Sex doesn't ruin friendships, people do.
Enjoy each other and stop worrying. You've already started to try to talk yourself out of this and I don't think you should.
Ultimately, its your decision but from what you've said so far, I'd say its the next logical step in this relationship.
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