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writes:My cousin and I like each other. We want to be together but we can't; we live 70 miles away, he is 4 years older etc. He and I have done nothing physical, my parents would be none to happy neither would his. He also doesn't want to overstep his boundaries with me. I'm adopted so we aren't technically related.... Is there anyway we can be together? without the complications of the family? They mean a lot to us and we don't want to hurt them, but want to be close.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): I'm 12 almost 13.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): I think you are too young to be thinking about this. But if you are 12 he should be 16, and might get his license soon and could come to visit so you can see each other. Anyway, I really doubt your parents would be happy about this relationship even if you are not blood related. If I were you I'd start letting the family know you are both chatting and emailig each other just to see their reactions. If those are positive then you'd know visits won't be seen odd to them.
I had already your age and know minds of twelve year olds and sixteen years old think very differently so I believe you just have a very physical attraction. A relationship between you two right now would be a little weird but it doesn't mean it could not work in the future.
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reader, jtc123 +, writes (3 December 2008):
I dont think theres a big problem with it. Your best bet might be to speak with someone close to you in your family who you can trust. Either that or wait till your older and can live closer.
It's your life, fill it with your choices. Your not biologicaly related so it's not thattt bad
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