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Can two people go into a genuine relationship and make things work when you've jumped right into the sex part?

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Question - (10 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *aphne...x writes:

Hey guys. I've already posted about this person before when I was seeing him last time, but he broke up with me claiming he didn't want a relationship at that point.

Well we still spoke after it and stayed friends, but he asked me to meet up with him again and I stayed with him. We had really passionate sex, and sat up all night talking. He was really sweet just as I remembered him and it has triggered feelings on my end again, I never really did get over him in the first place. Now it's messing with my head because he seemed really interested and I do believe I am in love with him. But I'm worried in case it's just a sex thing from his point of view. He's always cuddling me and snuggling when we're sleeping and seems to care, but I just don't know.

Can two people go into a genuine relationship and make things work when you've jumped right into the sex part? I'm just worried if I try and ask to get back together I'll scare him off. Any advice please?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2011):

It sounds like he's an affectionate person who likes sex but doesn't want a relationship. In fact he has said so.

Next time, try not to give too much too soon. Men get bored if they don't have to chase you.

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