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Can this relationship work? We are about to meet for the first time and I need advice!

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Question - (4 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2010)
A male South Africa age 36-40, *upidpower writes:

hi, i just started to fall in love with a girl over the phone. it started when she buzzed my number..i ignored it..she then phoned me ...couldnt answer...*missed call* however..i contacted her..we talked for an hour...she sounds calm and loving on the phone..luckily she stays in the same province as me..speaking one language...she 17 years and im 23 yrs...we were planning to meet..is there something you can advice me..im at university and she is at high school..pls advice me...can it work..just desperate...

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A female reader, misspurple United Kingdom +, writes (5 August 2010):

I think you should meet up, whats the harm? Hang out as friends and get to know eachother first. There is 7 years between me and my boyfriend. With her only being 17 though you may have trouble with the parents if they find out. She may sound nice on the phone but i suppose anyone can really so just be aware. Good luck :)

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2010):

aphexinfinite agony aunti agree you have to meet before you can remotely tell how you feel also you need to spend quality time before you can tell if your compatible. i would say meet or leave it be she is still young and might go to university across the country what then you need to slow down and rethink whats going on. good luck aphex

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (4 August 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntHow can u fall in love with a girl by talking to her for an hour? Ur at university, u are an adult now and she is still in high school probably unsure about her career path..I think she's too young for a relationship

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