A
female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:well this would be similar to my other question i had..but anyways ive been really stressed out lately because i cant figure out what to do in life..im stuck on 2 different guys and i want to move out already ive got 2 daughters im 18 and going to school...the guy im currently with is awsome and all but its just i see to much of the previous guys i dated in his personality and when i try and talk about serious things with him he just puts his head down seys yes.idk, and it really frustrates the heck out of me, and then there is the other guy ive never met him yet but i do talk to him online on the phone and see him on web cam and also my sister knows him and people he hangs out with...i also talk to people he lives with, and he also has 2 kids just like i do and i want to be with someone who has kids so that i dont have to sit there and tell them to grow up and fix them, it seems i have this pattern of dating guys that are the same that seem to have problems and there lives need fixing..so this is sorta like 2 questions in one can someone tell me how to chose one with out hurting one of them and how to break my patterns????? Reply to this Question
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reader, crmcorn65  +, writes (6 June 2009):
This is easy--stop dating, you have enough on your plate! If you really want to date, date both. You don't need to sleep with anyone. That's what dating is, to find someone that is right for you. If you can't choose, or have doubts, then you do nothing, because you obviously aren't in love with either one, especially the one you've never met!
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