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writes:I have been with my bf for almost 18 months. we both love each other, but in some situations i find my bf very selfish. he only thinks of his own good. sometimes tells me that i didn't share my feeling to him. i do share but sometimes i think why should i tell him how good or bad i feel because of him, don't know it is right or wrong?And when we both travel by an auto i only pay the fair and he asks me to pay for him, which seems very cheap.he always tells me that he don't have money. but at times he also tell me that i never tell him for helping me financially. i'm confused what he wants and what he is trying to say...please helpthanx in advance...
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (28 March 2011):
 If he doesn't have money and he is a jackass, then you should end it. Yeah, money is not everything, but being in a constant financial rut without doing anything about it is kinda bad. However there are hints of him helping you out financially, unless I read it wrong. If he is helping you out financially, and he thinks that you doing the little stuff, like paying for a cab, is good, do it. If he is supporting you and you can't pay a cab, then he isn't the cheap one. However, if he is NOT supporting you and he is asking you to pay for his cab faire and is cheap, well, he should get a freakin bike. I don't pay for womens' cab faires unless i invite them. I don't pay for dinner unless I invite them. I do not like to introduce money into the mix. So, how about trying to avoid that? If you want to make it work, don't involve money. However, I think you do want to involve money in it. If he can't keep up with your lifestyle from a financial perspective, then don't date him. I honestly don't see it working out.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (28 March 2011):
If he doesn't have money and he is a jackass, then you should end it. Yeah, money is not everything, but being in a constant financial rut without doing anything about it is kinda bad. However there are hints of him helping you out financially, unless I read it wrong. If he is helping you out financially, and he thinks that you doing the little stuff, like paying for a cab, is good, do it. If he is supporting you and you can't pay a cab, then he isn't the cheap one. However, if he is NOT supporting you and he is asking you to pay for his cab fare and is cheap, well, he should get a freakin bike. I don't pay for women's cab fares unless i invite them. I don't pay for dinner unless I invite them. I do not like to introduce money into the mix. So, how about trying to avoid that? If you want to make it work, don't involve money. However, I think you do want to involve money in it. If he can't keep up with your lifestyle from a financial perspective, then don't date him. I honestly don't see it working out.
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