Can I take this guy seriously?

A female age 30-35, *liciouss writes:

so i met this guy at the end of july. our first date was a blind date, but the blind date was amazing. we had a conversation nonstop for 3 hours in his car. we have been dating (nonexclusive) ever since and we have perfect chemistry, our humor is the same, things in common, everything you would want personality-wise. the problem is he is the kind of guy who isn't jealous and is confident in himself.. i love that because that is how i am too. the thing is that when a guy flirts with me or anything.. he doesn't really seem to care. he has asked me multiple times to be his gf, but it was just the spur of the moment when we're in bed (i haven't given it up yet to him). so it makes me believe that he just wants me to be his gf so that i am more inclined to have sex with him. i said ill think about it. he hasn't asked ever since. the thing that irritates me is that he takes forever to text back or sometimes he doesn't at all. hes a very busy guy with full-time work and basketball but really? u can't text back? he claims his phone sucks and that he has bad service. when we are together, it is perfect. when we're not, he texts me but it doesn't feel like he's all there as if a bf was all there for me. he doesn't feel bad when i'm mad at him and he doesn't really do anything about it. does he even care? he says he really likes me and he always makes the 30 min drive to see me at least twice a week hence our busy schedules. we really dig each other... but i don't know.

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