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Can I damage my husband's testicles during sex?

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Question - (1 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My husband and I are trying to get pregnant. When we are having sex, I massage his testicles to make him ejaculate more. I have noticed that they seem to get less sensitive to massaging as he is nearing climax. Usually when he is getting close, he asks me to "go to town on them" so I wiggle them around and massage them pretty hard. He said that when I do that he ejaculates into me 8 or 9 times, instead of 4 or 5 when I don't rub them. Sometimes after he orgasms, he says I massaged them too hard and he is sore.

It might be kind of selfish of me, but I really want a baby and the more sperm I get, the more likely I am to get pregnant. If there are any people out there with a medical background, I would like to know if I can damage my hubby's testicles if I massage them too hard. I do not want him to go sterile or develop testicular cancer some day. Should I ease up on the rubbing, even though his orgasms are more intense and I seem to get more ejaculation?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009):

No you wont. All you are doing is getting the blood to circulate down in his testicals whitch is better for your chance to get knocked up!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009):

I don't have a medical background, but I have been married almost 20 years and my wife has always slid her hands down between us to massge my testicles when we are having sex. She knows its my favorite and makes my orgasms more intense. I too notice more ejaculate, so I think you are on the right track for trying to get pregnant.

And yes, she has on occasion massaged them too hard, but we have 3 kids and so far my testicles seem to be just fine. I don't think there is such a thing as too hard, if it got too painful I would know before orgasm an dshe would back off. I too am curious about the medical profession's input on this matter. Are there any long term medical effects?

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