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female
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anonymous
writes:my friend tony and i have been friends for over 15 years. we have been sexually active once. he was married during that time, and i didn't know. i even asked him and he said no, he wasn't married, even though he was. we were both in the military and stationed at different bases and we just kept in touch via internet and phone, that's why i didn't know what kind of life he was leading. i didn't know throughout the years he lied about being married and having children to a number of women. he is a serial cheater, and a habitual liar, and everyone knows this, yet women seem to still want to have children with him and marry him. he was even indicted on fraud charges, yet he wasn't convicted, so that should say enough about his character right there.can a man that lived that kind of double life now find happiness in his current wife? I mean, this man has cheated on every woman he has been with, has gone back and forth between his childrens' mothers (four different women) saying he loves them and wants to be with them, and now all of a sudden, he is married again, his second marriage and claims to be happy because he found "the one" is this possible? should the new wife be weary of her husband, given his past? can a man be rehabilitated, just because he thinks he found his soulmate? anyone?
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (1 May 2010):
No I cannot be rehabilitated and I have nothing to do with you? Get on with your own life and let him sink in his own cesspit?
Your continued interest in him does you no credit what would your partner think if he new you still harboured affection for this 'rat'?
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