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writes: Need opinion on this person. Thank you?Can ignorant, careless and not taking care of self person going to be succeed? Please give example and opinion? Do you believe ignorant, stupid, and not take care of himself person can be succeed? Is there any examples of that? I know someone who is very hard working and serious in his job but he seems dumb and very ignorant person. He doesn't care what happened around him if there's no impact on him. He just show that he care if he's not interested or impacted. But for his work as he is starting his new business he really serious and focus that its his priority. He has bad habit of not take care of his appearance and gesture (self control) that i think people can't really respect him. Does this person going to be succeed? Is the hard-working or the character of him devine someone success? Please give examples Reply to this Question
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reader, TrueLoveWaits2016  +, writes (24 October 2017):
No I do not believe someone like that can make a good partner. I dated a guy who didn't take care of himself. He was constantly broke, was unhealthy and really had no motivation whatsoever. That reflected onto the relationship we had, he never made an effort for me or anything in his own life. I'm not saying this is the same, but watch out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2017): Business journals state that 80 percent of newly started businesses fail in the 1st year, another 10 percent fail within 3 years and only the remaining 10 percent have any chance of survival. So you can see the survival rate of newly started businesses is pretty slim. To succeed in business you have to offer a product for which there is a demand like a new innovation or you have to offer an existing product but at a cheaper price with the same quality which the others can not offer. Also there are a host of other characteristics a businessman must have other than hard work. He has to be smart like clever, he has to know his trade deeply and has to be sociable and friendly and able to plan etc etc. Which cant be listed here in DC.To be honest the picture you have painted for the guy does not encourage me to say that he can succeed. Sorry.
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reader, suzzzque269 +, writes (22 October 2017):
 could your friend be on the spectrum? my son is high functioning for the most part but still has a lot of accompanying issues. hes trying to start a lawn care business...hes great at doing the actual work and hes good at finding customers but just like your friend he has issues doing other aspects of his daily life. he doesnt shower regularly, he needs to be reminded to brush his teeth and stuff. since he has a support system-me and life skills counselors, he has a good chance at being successful with the business and life.
does your friend have anyone who can give him guidance with his daily life? if he is on the spectrum there are services out there to help. if he isnt on the spectrum the same steps could be useful. feel free to contact me if you have any questions.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (22 October 2017):
 Let me answer your question with a question, or rather 2 questions.
Can your low opinion of another person prevent them from achieving their goals?
Do you define what success is for another person. or is that something only they can define for themselves?
A related Question: Do you let other people define your success?
A question related to what we guess this question is really about: Can a successful relationship be built when one of the parties has no respect for the other?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2017): I meant to say:
"How can he start his own business and be hardworking if he's stupid?"
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2017): How can he start his on business and be hardworking if he's stupid? Your post is contradictory and doesn't make sense.
A person can be untidy and addle-minded; but they can still become quite successful. Some people are absent-minded and focused only on their particular interests. His talent lies in his special interests. He trusts himself enough to pursue his dream. He'll figure it out through trial and error.
If you're not a part of those interests; then it is unlikely that a relationship with you will be successful. If you hope he fails because of this, that's sad. You have the open option to be on your way; and to do whatever you're doing to be successful.
If you have such a low opinion of him, and think he's stupid. Why are you with him and bothering to ask such a question? Move on!
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reader, Been there Now over it +, writes (22 October 2017):
Succeed at what? There have certainly been examples - some very well known - of such people who have succeeded in business. But I doubt you are inquiring because you are thinking about buying stock in his company.
Given that you are asking this question on DC, it seems your real question is whether the both of you can succeed in a relationship together. I don't think anyone could be happy for long with someone they consider ignorant, careless and poorly groomed. Leave him to someone else who is not bothered by these characteristics.
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