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writes:do feelings come back after a couple broke up?I'm having quite a confusing time... I just broke up with this girl. Yeah, our situation all points towards the direction of "not gonna make it", so in a way, many people expected it. First, we were long distance. Second, she went back to graduate school. Third, I was busy building my career outside the United States. Even though I was going to come back to the States eventually, it still didn't save the relationship.Both of us have had relationships before, but we were each other's real first love. And when we started dating long distance, things were fine for seven months. We talked everyday for 3-4 hours. Until she got to school, when she got busy, and i got busier at my work, we talk less and less. After a while, feelings started to disappear.I still love her though even until now. It's just not as much as last time. However, I still love the idea of "us" together. We even talked about marriage. What i find sad the most is that how in love we were and how we ended up like this now. I will see her again soon in about 4-5 months. Not sure if by that time, both of us will be single. But do feelings come back? Even after you sorta unlove the person? Will we be able to love each other again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI now see my ex as a friend and so does she. I still, however, love the idea of us together. we make such a perfect couple. I'm not sure if i can be like that again with someone else. At this point.. is it still possible of getting back together as an item?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wanna know stories of ppl experiencing the same situation i have and what are their outcomes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2007): Yeah, i know how you feel, you have a life. You have to balance out your life find time for "her" and school, and other stuff. Balance it out. If you want her back and she wants you than go for her. In that time period think things over and then see how you really feel. Its possible!!
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