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*ngron
writes:There's this girl at my college that I've really liked since the day I first met her. I became friends with her and we've been hanging out a lot, mostly just the two of us but I can't work out whether or not she likes me in the same way I like her, she's the one that normally asks me if I want to go and get something to eat with her but when we're together it just feels like she wants to be mates. Can anyone think of a way I can work out what she's thinking? All my friends have said to just ask her but I've got nowhere near enough confidence, can anyone think of a more subtle way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2009): The only way you will ever know is to ask the girl, you coward.Otherwise you don't deserve a relationship if you can't even work up the confidence to just talk about the way you feel.Maybe she'll like you back, maybe she'll just want to be friends.Either way, you never know until you TALK TO HER.Flynn 24
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reader, Ask JenniHearts  +, writes (13 January 2009):
 leave sudle hints. show her you care just by being dorky or cute. flirt enough to were she knows you like her or atleast get her to think about it. you don't have to full on come out and say it you can leave it up to her.
if she does like you and shes still able to make it feel like friends then thats PERFICT then the awkward ness of a relationship will sooth your confedence.
tell her she looks nice
open doors for her
give her meaniful hugs (4 seconds)
make her feel wanted and the answer will be clear
hope this has helped
jenni hearts
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