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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Can anyone advise me on how to act around the guy I like, and who I think suspects I like him? I can't help flirting a bit because I'm a natural flirt and my feelings for him are so strong, but I give mixed signals to him because I am also conscious of the fact that I don't want to look obvious! I get the impression he likes me too but hasn't said anything because he is still with his girlfriend, which also makes me want to hide my feelings for him! But I also don't want to forget about him because whose to say that I'm not the right woman for him and she isn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): It's important that you be yourself, but try holding off on the obvious flirting because he does have a girlfriend and it could end very badly if he thinks that you don't respect that fact.
If him and his girlfriend break up then wait a little while (I'm thinking a least a month) before making any moves (You'd probably get hurt if you were just a rebound).
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