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writes:hi,im 14 and in a realtionship with a boy at my school.we both believe that we are one anothers soul mate (yes it sounds corny but im serious)isnt it normal that parents should be supportive of their daughter's relationships? well mine arent :( the both of us believe that we could last a long time, we have such a connection that it sounds like a fairy tale...i once told my parents that i think we could stay together forever and my parents said thats impossible.. that one day we are gonna break up and my heart will be broken.. no one understands what we have between us... my question is, will a relationship work out even if everyone is telling you that its impossible? can the love between two people keep it going strong?
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reader, love what a Bic*h  +, writes (26 June 2008):
Hey, Just read your question and thought id answer it. Im 15 and in a Long distence relationship (we see one another though) But everyone kept telling me it aint going to last but no matter what people said we stuck together and havn't ever had an arguement, not once and we've been together for a year and 3 months so ignore what people say if you love him and he loves you it doesn't matter what your parents think. It's not up to them it's up to you what you do they can't make you're dessisions for you. So keep seeing one another and ignore what your parents say because all that matters is what you two feel (: Good luck to you both (: and btw your parents will have to deal with how you feel at some point so don't worrie and good luck to you both xoxo
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reader, theOC  +, writes (26 June 2008):
It is possible, but the people around you are older and more experienced. They see things that you may not see and what they say is out of love and not to spite you.
Understand that your parents, family, and friends may say certain things based on their experience, so I would take into consideration what they're saying.
At 14 years old, you have a lot of things going for you. I feel that you're comfortable where you're at and don't realize that the future holds many changes. One day, you're going to college and he's going to college. You're going to pick a profession and he's going to pick a profession. Both your lives are on different paths and there is a chance that you both will take different roads.
However, I have two friends that have been dating since 13, and now they're in their 30s. It is possible for the relationship to work against the odds, but the way I see it, you still have a lot to learn about living life. If you decide to stay together, I wish you all the best.
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