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writes: hi, i just wanted to know something...between married couples...can a married couple stay under one roof, not love each other ...and without having sex ( 5 years time??) the man apparently tells his girlfriend of five years that he doesnt f*** his wife...is that possible???? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2007): it is highly impossible
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2006): certainly is. ask my husband
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2006): Yes, he may not have sex with his wife, but he's deeply rooted and attached to her in other ways. If he wasn't he wouldn't still be there. It's a fact this does happen and I think the number of sexless marriages out there, is grossly under estimated. Remember, marriage is so much more than just good sex. Emotional bonds of friendship, trust, respect is incredibly hard to attain with just anyone. Many married people stay together in a sexless marriage, because they do have a deep roots of emotional ties to their spouse and family. Some stay for reasons of finances, children, assets. Marriage is the merging to two people lives in all aspects. Houses, businesses, vehicles, pension plans, insurance policies...all are divided and split in a divorce. Divorce can be a draining expense when lawyers come into the fray, as well. Some married people just don't bother with a divorce..because of these reasons. It's just easier. This is why I recommend, "not" getting involved with married people. Because many married people who choose to get sex outside of the marriage, have no intention of leaving their marriage behind. Why should they when they can have their cake and eat it too. If you have a friend who is having an affair with a married man, she should seriously rethink their actions..I think she's fooling herself if she thinks he will leave his wife for her, because if he's lived in a sexless marriage for 5 years, then it's likely, he won't leave. He'll just keep finding sexual partners outside of the marriage. I think your friend could end up getting painfully hurt. Perhaps you should have a talk with her.
Good luck
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reader, Sarah C- happy to help +, writes (8 February 2006):
I believe this is possible!One of my friends mum and dad share a house and the sleep in seperate rooms they dont hardly speak to each other so yes it is possible.
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reader, Sarah C- happy to help +, writes (8 February 2006):
It happens one of my friends mum and dads live in the same house and they sleep in seperate rooms and they hardly speak to each other, so yeah it is possible!!
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