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writes: Hi, I fell in love with a married man (no kids) in 2000. Please do not take me wrong..i know just because he was attached , I shouldnt have gone anywhere near him, but trust me did not plan to fall in love with him. He gave me a reason to love and be loved in return, until he had was called overseas to work. Since then they have staying together...it has been 5 years since he left, I have always tried to be there for him, but I just cannot seem to get over him. I have changed as a person, but my feelings for him remain the same. His wife has called me a couple of times, demanding to know what's happening. I know I had to sacrifice my love because i did not want to take away her happiness to make mine. She deserves all that love that a woman should get from her husband, but her husband claims he only loves me. i let go of my love..I want him and at the same time i wish he could make his decision and tell one of us to move on. He cannot keep both. Plse help me sort this problem out.many thanks...
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reader, shania  +, writes (8 February 2006):
 And how do you imagine a married man "proves" his love for another woman? There is only one way....to leave his wife for you.I think after 5 years,its highly unlikely he will give you that pleasure(or his wife that misery) Why should he? he was having the best of two worlds.Please grab your life back...and forget that deceitful man.....dont contact him,and put as much space and time between you and this mistake because i know you can.Eventually,you will meet someone who will be a truer love to you....trust me.
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