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Can a hostess make exceptions to her own invitation?

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Question - (11 March 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2009)
A female India age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi

i have recently hosted a birthday birthday for my kid.

i also sent out a 'no siblings please' note in the invitations with one or two exceptions wherin the siblings were close to my son.

one of the parent cornered me so as to why there were exceptions.

I want to if a host is justified in sending out invitations with discrepancies.

thanks,

arti.

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (11 March 2009):

jessica04 agony auntI work part time for a kids' birthday party facility, and we charge per child that participates. Sometimes parents don't realize this and they end up costing the hosting parent quite a deal of money when they bring siblings who have no real connection to the birthday boy/girl.

You are completely in the right for letting it be known that siblings were not to come, except those that are also friends. Don't feel bad.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntYour party your rules! This parent is just being arsey about it, probably because she can't palm off all her brats on you for a day.

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A female reader, crazy_in_luv United States +, writes (11 March 2009):

this is really weird.

i suggest that you tell this parent nicely not to feel bad,and that it was your decision and you are not going to change it.

dont let them get to you.

all the best,

hope your son has a nice birthday and party!

take care

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntIts your party so you do as you please! If the other siblings were closer to your child then its ok to make an exception for them! Ignore this horrible parent who is questioning you! X

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