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writes: I kissed a gay guy the other night while I was at a big rave. We were quite 'out of it' but hung out for hours and were kissing all night. He has a boyfried, but is in an open relationship and he told me that he has not been with a girl in three years. We said that we would meet up, but I am not sure if this is gong to happen. Does this mean anything? If a guy is gay, can he decide he is straight again??
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reader, pooky +, writes (22 January 2006):
 Go for it girl. Trust me.
Its not a gay straight issue. Those are just lables.
This has to do with how you feel about each other in your hearts and souls.
If you truly become deep friends and can talk about everything then you have a commitment. This is what a total love is based on.
To many people think love is based on having sex, or sexual orintation. That is not the case.
It is all about deeply loving the person you are with..
Heart, Body, Mind, and Soul...
Never let go of that!
From a stright Married Woman.
Everything wil be OK.
PS going on a SKI trip with a gay MALE friend very soon.
Im not afraid, there is trust between us and deep frindship that goes back 13 years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2005): What is this gay vs straight thing? It's not either/or. He is probably bi, but you seem to want to put him in one either/or cubbyhole or another.He is on a spectrum, probably more to the gay end than the straight end, but that doesn't mean he is only gay any more than only straight.Get past the stereotyping and accept him as him, not as some label.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2005): As you said " We were quite 'out of it' , well, I have a question for you then, have you see this person again after that night ?... It could be that We were quite 'out of it' can cause things such, watch out girl, what I can say, in either way gay or not gay, bisexual or not, he has a past which at least concerns him as gay, which you will never know, and most probably will be that in the future if anything happens, this person can hurt you without knowing he is doing so.my advice, you can get get a 100% fully man person, and single, and things can have bigger and better chances than the one currently seen.by the way, im a guy and as a guy I find gays completely in a different world and a straight person will never combine with a gay/bisexual person.Good luck and take care.Matt,20
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reader, MyKhemikalRomanze +, writes (22 June 2005):
This guy could not be gay. He could be bisexual, you never know. And yes, a gay guy can go straight if he feels the need. Sometimes, men get in sexual intercourse with another male and since they did that, they think they're gay. Most of them are right, but if this guy is still gay and wants to date you, he's most likely bisexual.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (22 June 2005):
 Maybe he likes both sexes... Some people are like that, they can fancy someone and it doesnt matter to them what sex they are, if they fancy them they fancy them simple as that. Maybe he likes the attention from females from time to time.... remember though you did say he has a boyfriend... perhaps he also looking for a play thing.. so it doesnt matter whether he is gay or not hes already in a relationship... perhaps its best to find someone that is already single.
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