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Question - (16 December 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 17 December 2009)
A female Sudan age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am 20 years old and I am a virgin. I dont know how to have sex, I was looking for educational videos but all i found is porn videos and its disgusting. Can a girl have first time sex (losing virginity) without using the finger, just by penis penetration?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2009):

I think there's some language confusion... if you are penetrated with a finger, you're still a virgin, when penetrated by a penis- you're not.

I think some people thought the question was if you have sex where your BF doesn't use his finger in you before he uses his penis. Your BF should finger you and get you wet before he slides in penis into you. enjoy!

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A male reader, daletom United States +, writes (17 December 2009):

Yes. The amount of discomfort you experience during first intercourse is related to how well your partner prepares you. He doesn't need to insert anything, though it will be much easier if he brings you to orgasm just before starting the penetration.

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A female reader, platinumfocus Canada +, writes (17 December 2009):

platinumfocus agony auntYes, you can have sex without any previous sexual experience. However, if the first thing down there is his penis, it will likely hurt more.

Just tell him to take it slow.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (16 December 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntYes

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 December 2009):

A woman loses her virginity when a penis enters a vagina. That's the only way.

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