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male
age
30-35,
*heekymonky
writes: Why do I let people get to me? At college I am quite good at the subjects I do especially drama and I had a brilliant year last year and now other people are being nasty and horrible to me. It seems it all centers around friendships. I done all I can to help my group and they just bully me and outside of college my distant family (cousins are so competitive one of them sees me as a threat that if I do better than her child and one of my siblings is so jealous that I might be going to uni) and there's just so much bitterness around in my life. Throughout my life I have been bullied and this took a toll on my fitness and health. I just want to be like everyone else. So how do I fight back?
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (17 November 2008):
Hi,
Sorry to hear that! I think the best way to fight back is to not let it bother you. its just jealousy, as you are already aware. You are letting it get to you, when really what does it matter? There will always be people like this through life, but the best way to deal with them is to to ignore them.
XX Good luck at Uni.
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