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Brokenhearted after boyfriend cheated. What do I do next? 

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Question - (6 May 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 May 2013)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi all, how to i recover from a broken heart and the feeling of being totally foolish with I guy i love and would have spent my life with. I found out from a good friend if mine that he caught him at 3am with another girl walking down the street after a night out. He said nothing happened but I dint believe him. There has been issues with other women also in the past and him texting other girls but he promised me faithfully this had stopped. Now I don't believe it has.

He talk about out future, how I was the only one he wanted and get married make a home and have children, now I feel it was all lies (I had been married before and these promises were made to me then and my ex husbandwalked out on me) this guy knew how I felt about all this and said he would never do this to me. I believe now he cheated all through our 17 month relationship even though he said he did nothing and was totally innocent.

My phone keeps ringing and he is hounding me to try to explain, I feel totally heartbroken and used and such a fool that he messed me about for so long. Please help me deal with this broken heart and give me your thoughts on what I should do next.

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A female reader, lilmishap United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2013):

you know what to do. Decide to have it out with him and see how yyou 'feel' as he explains. If you feel he is hiding something. try and leave him. Or try carrying on. But i doubt hell change

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