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writes: My girlfriend broke up with me recently, last Saturday, saying that we fight too much and argue too much.I am 18 and she is 15. After talking about things she said she still wanted to see me now and again while meeting other people. We met in person Wednesday to talk about our relationship and we spent all day together. It was very emotional day. She was crying a lot and even said that she wished everything was back the way it was and that she didn't say anything. Everything seemed great Wednesday. We were holding hands, kissing and hugging. She said she still loved me, and said that we should try an open relationship and I told her that I would think about it. Later that night she rang and said she didn't want to be in a relationship at all and we should just be friends. I think there is someone else influencing her decision, like her mother. We were together 10 months. My heart is broken.
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (15 April 2006):
 A young girls biggest influence is her friends so if anyone making her conflicted by her emotions and what she wants. shes probarbly enjoying this relationship but doesnt want to get into anything serious. she's young and probarbly doesnt mean to seem like shes playing games she doesn't understand what's shes doing as she not mature enough to.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (15 April 2006):
 She is playing with your head and you are letting her, accept her decision to finish and as hard as it will be you need to walk away and dont turn back.
She maybe influenced by her mum but she has her own mind and you have yours, you must see that she is just messing about, even mentioning an "open relationship" tells you that she has either saw someone else she fanicies or is seeing someone else but just cannot choose between you and him.
What ever the reason, dont beg just walk away!!
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reader, lea22dc +, writes (15 April 2006):
Ok, first of all, she's only 15. Second, you could be arrested if sex takes place, those are just some things to keep in mind. She obviously doesn't know what she wants right now and maybe the thought of a serious relationship is just too much for her right now. She probably figures she wants to see what else is out there before being with just one person. If you argue all the time, then a break wouldn't be a bad idea.
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