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writes:ok, me and my ex boyfriend got 2gether 6 times and only got back 2gether 5times.its bin a week since we boke up and all i can do is think of him.i have never felt so special about a guy b4.i tried everything to get over him but its doesnt work!!he was so nice and i had/have so many songs dedicated to him.he started dating again right after we broke up. he lied to me and called me so many names when we broke up but even though hes cruel i still love him and i dont know why.we were sooo happy together and i tried soo hard to keep the relationship going.i cry every time we brake up.its bin the longest weve bin not 2gether and i cant stop thinking uvv him. heartbreak is more painful then anything ive ever felt.i sent so many pictures and love messages but now he doesnt wanna be friends! he told me to never talk to him again just because we broke up and he wont even talk to me. i hurt so much inside and i just want him back so if therr r any tips on how to get over him or get him back pleaaasssssssseeeeee tell me.thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): Ok..I'm going to make this simple and sweet :) all you need to do is move on...keep yourself occupied...be friends with him if possible...and just keep your smile on your face. Trust me it works. Yes, it's hard to do but if you believe in yourself...you can do anything you set your mind up to. You always got have faith in yourself and never give up. Your going to have those bad days but its reality and who doesn't have them? Trust me you will be the happiest person soon enough. You will be living the life you always dreamed of. I'm sure you are still young and you need to live it up and to the fullest. Always rememeber to live laugh and love. That is the moto i live by and always faith hope and love. Never give up on yourself that always makes the situation worse if you do. Go out with your girlfriends, flirt with those boys, and just have fun girl. You can do it! I believe in you. I hope my advice has helped you in some way. Good Luck. Remember *Live Laugh and Love* :)
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 hey,
you have broken up with him and gotten back with him soo many times and every time you end up heart broken! what does make you think that this time it will be different?
you really have to forget about him! i know you think it is hard, but we have all been there and done it! so if we can do it , you can do it too! good luck!
byeXXX
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reader, love-him  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 Hey babe, break ups are soo cruel.. and also love is too, this guy called you names which is the lowest he could go.. i know that you love him, and if your heart leads you both together again then let it be, you are young, have fun :) i hope you are ok, dont let him hurt you again, if you want to get back togethr, wait for him to ask :) mail me if you would like to talk x
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (22 November 2007):
Breakups are always hard, especially your first break up. Is this your first guy you have been out with and been dumped by?
The first thing you need to do, to be able to get over him, is to ACCEPT that it is over. It doesnt seem like you are really able to accept that right now, as you are still looking for ways to get him back. So if you truly want to stop the pain you need to be able to realise that you guys just arent meant to be, and that you can do better, because honestly you can. What sort of good bf calls you names and is cruel? Not a good one...You deserve SO much more then that. I know you said he makes you happpy and im sure he did at times, buttt he has obviously caused you pain. That pain IS NOT worth the sarifice of your self respect. You deserve a guy who will not call you names.
Remember that it has only been a week, it could take a while yet before you are over him. BUT believe me, as time goes on, the pain WILL lessen. This heartache wont last forever. Keep reminding yourself that. Realise that you can find happiness in so many other ways in life. You dont need a guy to give you happiness do you? Think of all the other ways you could. For example, when me and my ex bf broke up, I thought that it was the end of the world, I felt so depresseed, because he was the main person who made me sooo happy. Howeveer, what I did was looked for it elsewhere- with my family and friends. Spending tiem with people who love and care for you is prob one of the biggest helpers. So spend time with those cloest to you.
Hope this has helped in some way :) feel free to PM me
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