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male
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36-40,
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writes: So me and my ex split up in december, and we didnt talk and she starting going after different guys. Well recently, we have become good friends again, and have also made out quite a few times, even when she claimed to like these other guys. to be fair i have also had my fair share of other girls aswell. She then text me saying she really is still not over me, and that we should meet up. So i went round her house last night, and we kinda got it on and agreed it was just like when we went out, and agreed that we both still liked each other even when getting with other people. When i asked why she liked the other guys, she said it was because she was trying to get over me by trying to go out with other guys, like rebounds. Is this geniune cos i dont know...So now we are seeing each other again but im having my doubts, help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): I do think that girls do this sort of thing, say they're dating other guys (maybe they are, maybe they aren't really) and most of the time they do it to make the other party jealous, and other times to get over feelings from a previous relationship. Nonetheless, I don't think anybody should start out a relationship with these mind-game problems. Unless problems can be clearly communicated and resolved, they will never truely be resolved... they will resurface.
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