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writes: hi my b/f and i got into it really bad and i punched the wall and broke my finger volleyball is coming up and if i dont make the team he will break up with me and my mom will be mad at me . what do i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006):
Actually, it sounds like a stroke of good luck!
You'll have more time for you studies, you'll puncture your mother and boyfriend's unhelpful expectations, and you have learned the consquences of your actions when you rage out.
Ahhhh, its like an after school special....
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reader, b3x  +, writes (11 November 2006):
 Right... what do you mean 'got into it really bad'
My first guess is you were having sex? Or were you guys arguing?
Another thing doesn't your mum already know that you have broken your finger? Surely you have gone to A&E and got it sorted out, if not you need to get your butt down there so they can take an xray, that will then determine whether or not your finger is broken. Also it may not heal right if you don't get it put back in its place....if you don't get it checked out and it heals wrong you may never play volleyball again!
Unfortunatly babe, if its broken I would strongly advised for you not to play with a broken finger infact don't even attempt to! You could end up causing yourself some long term damage!
The boyfriend part... He was there at the time right? So surely he knows that you have broken it? Why would he split up with you just because you don't make the team? If he does then he is very lame, he's not with you for all the right reasons! Plus if he does he has done you a favour, why would anyone want to see someone if they are only with them because they make the volleyball team, Ask anyone they will agree with me, if he dumps you for that he is just not worth it!
You mom won't be mad at you, you can't help having a broken finger babe, these things happen, I guess you'll just have to go to the next try outs, I hope your finger heals well, please don't try and play volleyball with a broken finger! You'll cause so much more damage to it! Keep safe babe xx
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