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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years we live together, and have started talking about getting married. I love him very much and I know that he loves me, but he just doesn't seem to be interested in sex lately. When we started dating we had a great sex life, we were intimate at least 4 or 5 times a week... but now I'm lucky if we have sex more than once a month. If I try to bring it up he gets defensive and it starts a big fight, but when I don't say anything he can tell that something is wrong and when I wont tell him he gets mad and a fight breaks out anyway. I don't know what to, but something needs to change, I don't know how much longer I can do this. How can I bring sex back into our relationship?
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (13 October 2007):
Some men naturally have a low sex drive. Your boyfriend is probably one of those. Many medications can have the same effect. Have him see a doctor. Otherwise, you need to decide if this is something you can live with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007): I am so sorry you have to go through this, I am there as well. Is your boyfriend stressed? Is he worried? There is another, more serious problem to consider...does your boyfriend masturbate to porn? This is becoming a very big problem with the internet and it's availability of porn...try to figure out by process of elimination what's going on and if he is having a temporary problem, hang in there, if it is porn, run for the hills!!!
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